Where Do You Start When Feeling Overwhelmed? Tips to Manage Your Life

Feeling Overwhelmed

In today's world could almost be called a typical feeling. Sad, isn't it? That feeling stems from simply having more to do than you feel you can possibly manage. It's a very real feeling but, fortunately, the solution is also very real.

In this article I'm going to help you answer the question of where do you start when feeling overwhelmed. Later in the article I'm going to give you some tips to manage your life.

OK... let's start.

First,

Write down all you need to do. I know it seems counterintuitive but this step is necessary because it will give you an overall idea of all the things you need to schedule, but also because it will probably let you know things aren't as bad as they seem.

Second,

Take just a few minutes and write down a priority beside each of these tasks. Some may be high priority in that they have to get done really soon and some may have a lower priority and can be put off.

Third,

Consider delegating some of these tasks. Can your spouse help? How about the kids?

Fourth,

Take the high priority tasks left and figure out an order for them. See if you can multitask with some of the lower priority tasks.

Last time I did this exercise I ended up going for days with the same list and noticed day after day the same tasks getting put off. I finally realized that they weren't so important after all if every single day the importance of other tasks always trumped them. I think I finally just either scheduled time to get them out of the way and finally get them off my mind or just took some off my list altogether.

Tips to manage your life

· Learn to create a to-do list - This is an invaluable tool which can help keep life from getting out of hand.

· Learn to delegate - There's no reason you have to do things that others can do just as well.

· Get accustomed to not getting everything on your to-do list done today - Sometimes we can only get so much done before we're just mentally done for the day. Learn to accept when your Super woman cape gets repossessed.

· Learn to ask for help - There's no shame in this. It isn't a sign of weakness...it's a sign of strength.

· Learn to say no if needed - I love this word because saying yes to something is automatically saying no to something else. Just remember that.

· Learn speed cleaning techniques - Everyone loves a clean house and it can be done.

· Create and follow menus - This is a super time-saver and stress reducer.

· Watch less TV - Regardless of what you think this does not enhance your life. Taking photos of your family and creating albums does. Singing does. Taking long walks with your spouse does. Reading does.

· Check your e-mail less - Just schedule time for this. Don't do it 15 times a day when 2 times would work.

Want more tips on managing your time better? Download my free ebook about Time Management for some wonderful ideas.